Myth 9: “I’m Too Old (or Set in My Ways) to Change.”

Embracing change is possible at any age, as our brains possess the remarkable ability of neuroplasticity, allowing us to build new habits and learn new skills. Age should never be a barrier to growth; instead, it can be a source of wisdom and experience that enhances our journey of self-improvement.

Hirvesh Munogee

June 20, 2025

3 min read

Habit Formation

Behavior Change

Habit Loop

Habits

Behavioral Psychology

The Fallacy of Being "Set in Stone"
The Reality: Your Brain's Lifelong Superpower - Neuroplasticity
Inspiration Over 50
It's About Conscious Effort, Not Age
The Takeaway: Your Best Habits May Still Be Ahead of You
Show More

The Fallacy of Being "Set in Stone"

After a certain age, we tend to see our habits as permanent fixtures of our personality. We say things like, "I'm just not a morning person," "I've always had a sweet tooth," or "You can't teach an old dog new tricks." This belief—that our character is solidified and our routines are unchangeable—is a comfortable excuse. It absolves us of the responsibility to grow and improve. We resign ourselves to the idea that we are finished products, for better or for worse.

But this common belief is a myth, one that dramatically underestimates the incredible, lifelong capacity of the human brain. The reality is that you are never too old, and your ways are never too set, to build new and better habits.

The Reality: Your Brain's Lifelong Superpower - Neuroplasticity

For decades, it was believed that the brain's structure was fixed by early adulthood. We now know this is fundamentally untrue. The brain possesses a remarkable quality called neuroplasticity, which is its ability to reorganize itself by forming new neural connections throughout life.

Every time you learn a new fact, practice a skill, or repeat an action, you are physically rewiring your brain. The pathways associated with that behavior become stronger, more insulated, and more automatic. This process doesn't stop in your 20s. It continues into your 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond. Your brain is a dynamic, living organ, constantly adapting to your experiences and actions.

As one popular video on lifelong learning puts it, "Thinking you're 'stuck' is a mindset, not a biological reality. While a younger brain might form connections a bit faster, an older brain has the advantage of wisdom and experience to guide the process. The potential for improvement never goes away."

Inspiration Over 50

The world is filled with countless examples that defy the "too old to change" myth:

The 61-year-old who started running for the first time and completed his first marathon a year later.

The 72-year-old grandmother who learned to code and now builds websites for her local community.

The 58-year-old who finally kicked a lifelong smoking habit by replacing it with a daily walk and mindfulness practice.

The 80-year-old who learned to play the piano, proving that creativity and learning have no age limit.

These aren't superhuman exceptions; they are ordinary people who decided that their future was more important than their past. They understood that their identity was not defined by what they had always done, but by what they chose to do next.

It's About Conscious Effort, Not Age

Admittedly, breaking a habit that you've been reinforcing for 40 years might require more conscious effort than changing a habit you picked up last year. The old neural pathways are well-trodden roads. But "more effort" is not the same as "impossible."

The strategy remains the same regardless of age:

Start incredibly small: Don't try to overhaul your life. Pick one tiny, manageable habit.

Be consistent: The key to rewiring your brain is repetition.

Replace, don't just restrict: As we've learned, it's easier to swap a bad habit for a good one than to simply eliminate it.

Be patient with yourself: There will be good days and bad days. The goal isn't perfection; it's progress.

The Takeaway: Your Best Habits May Still Be Ahead of You

Don't let your age be a barrier to your ambition. Your capacity to change is not determined by your date of birth, but by your belief in your own potential. Thanks to the enduring power of neuroplasticity, you have the ability to build a new routine, learn a new skill, and become a better version of yourself at any stage of life. You are not set in stone. You are, and always will be, a work in progress.