Make It So Easy You Can’t Say No

The key to building lasting habits is to start with actions that are so easy they seem almost laughable, ensuring success even on our worst days. By focusing on maintaining consistency rather than intensity, we can gradually increase our efforts and solidify our new behaviors.

Hirvesh Munogee

June 28, 2025

3 min read

Habit Formation

Behavior Change

Habit Loop

Habits

Behavioral Psychology

The "Bad Day" Veto
The Reality: The Power of Laughably Small Steps
The Litmus Test: Can You Do It On Your Worst Day?
First, Build the Habit of Showing Up
The Takeaway: Find Your "Too Easy to Fail" Step
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The "Bad Day" Veto

We can all stick to a new habit on a good day. When we're feeling motivated, energized, and optimistic, a 30-minute workout or a chapter of a book feels achievable. But what about on a bad day? The day you’re stressed, exhausted from work, or just feeling completely unmotivated. On those days, even the smallest bit of resistance can feel like an insurmountable wall, and our new, fragile habit is the first thing to be vetoed.

This is where most habits die. We set the bar too high for our worst days, and when we fail to meet it, the chain of consistency is broken. But what if we set the bar so low that it was impossible to fail, even on our absolute worst day? According to habits expert Leo Babauta of Zen Habits, the key is to start so small that it’s almost laughable.

The Reality: The Power of Laughably Small Steps

Leo Babauta’s philosophy is a powerful antidote to the "all-or-nothing" mindset. He argues that the first step of any habit should be so incredibly easy that you simply can't say no. The goal isn't to see a dramatic result from the action itself; the goal is to build the separate, more fundamental habit of simply showing up.

"Make it so easy you can’t say no." - Leo Babauta

This means scaling down your ambition to its absolute smallest component.

Want to start journaling? Don't commit to writing three pages. Tell yourself to write just one sentence. If even that feels like too much on a bad day, make it one word.

Want to start flossing? Don't aim for your whole mouth. Start by flossing one single tooth.

Want to start meditating? Don't worry about 20 minutes. Just sit on the cushion and take two deep breaths.

Want to start exercising? Don't plan a full workout. Just put on your running shoes. That’s it. That’s the win for the day.

The Litmus Test: Can You Do It On Your Worst Day?

This "laughably small" approach provides a simple test for your new habit: is it easy enough to do on your worst day? When you have zero energy and zero motivation, can you still manage to write one word? Can you still floss one tooth?

The answer is almost certainly yes. And by doing so, you achieve something far more important than the action itself:

You maintain your consistency. You keep the streak alive and reinforce the habit's neural pathway in your brain.

You build an identity. You are no longer someone who wants to be a journaler; you are someone who is a journaler, because you show up and write every day, even if it's just one word.

You eliminate friction. The mental battle of "should I or shouldn't I?" disappears when the task is so ridiculously easy.

First, Build the Habit of Showing Up

The most important thing to understand is that consistency comes before intensity. You must first establish the routine of showing up before you can worry about optimizing your performance.

Once you have consistently shown up for a week or two—writing one word, flossing one tooth, putting on your shoes—the routine will start to feel automatic. The resistance will fade. At that point, you can gradually do more. After writing one word, you might feel like writing a full sentence. After flossing one tooth, doing a few more feels natural.

But the pressure is off. The only requirement is to complete the laughably small version. Everything else is a bonus.

The Takeaway: Find Your "Too Easy to Fail" Step

Stop letting your bad days derail your progress. Take the habit you want to build and shrink it down. Then shrink it again. Make it so easy, so simple, so laughably small that you can do it even when you have nothing left to give. Master the art of showing up, and the rest will follow.